Which   would you go for boafowaa orboadiwaa?

The early months of every relationship can feel exciting and effortless. A successful relationship involves efforts and compromise by both partners.

Healthy and long lasting relationships thrive on the building of a good foundation of respect, appreciation, mutual understanding and support.

However, relationships these days have become a business entity where people engage in to make gain personal needs. This is very particular about girls.

In this 21^st century there are two types of ladies in relationships basically in the Ghanaian society. This I term“ boadiwaa” and “boafowaa”. No need to explain these because I am sure we all understand them not as names but in the context it’s been used.Bofowaa girls supports you whiles boadiwaa girls helps you chop the Muller.

Boafowaa girls are ladies, not just ladies but real ones every man should look out for in any relationship being it intimate or casual. Emotional support a spice in a good relationship is what a boafowaa lady offers his man. That is, they accept their man′s differences and don’t insist their needs are met always. Something a boadiwaa girl will never do because she is only interested in what she gets from you regardless your situation.

Whiles a boafowaa girl listens to his man by not interrupting when he is speaking, focusing on what he is saying and not her responses, a boadiwaa girl will not allow his man say a word rather would want to be listened to even if she is talking trash.

Distinguishing between wants and needs is another quality of a boafowaa. She wants bags, shoes, nice hair and all the girly stuff but cool if you don’t always give her those because she can live without them but needs you to love and respects her as she is because she can’t live without you. Sister Boadiwaa also knows wants and needs but in her case she wants Brazilian hair like those of Kim kardashian, shoes from atmosphere and Victoria secrets under wears and can do without you once she has all the wants.

If she pick up fights with you and accepts her responsibilities for her mistakes which i term “fair fighting” then go for her because she is a boafowaa lady not boadiwaa who will always blame you for all the ups and downs in the relationship

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Changes happen in various aspects of life with relationships being no exception. When the table turns and things are no more the same as it were during the initial stages of the relationship a boafowaa girl will  respect the change and stick with you, come out with ideas to make things good but a boadiwaa girl will leave you for another person once things get ugly.

 Whiles a boadiwaa girl will be like “Baby can we order for koko king for breakfast, pizza from Eddy’s pizza for lunch and shrimp rice from Rhapsodies for dinner” Boafowaa goes like baby today am going to cook something delicious for breakfast lunch and dinner”. Boafowaa will at all times want to be your woman and boadiwaa will want to be your chic.

My guys charley you must look sharp and do the choosing well if you haven’t but if you already have which one is she if its boafowaa keep her and treat her like the queen she  is but if its sister boadiwaa then let her go wai.